Review: Conversation Chemistry by Amy Waterman and Mirabelle Summers
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Have you ever been introduced to someone, only to run out of interesting things to say within the first few minutes? Or maybe you’ve had more than a few first dates filled with awkward silences or boring “So what do you do?” chit-chat.
Mirabelle Summers and Amy Waterman set out to make communication with the opposite sex a breeze in their massive 298-page guide to male-female communication, Conversation Chemistry.
Fundamentally, men and women have different styles for communication. Men use words to do something, so their communication is often concise, to the point, and goal oriented. Women, on the other hand, use words to feel connected, so they love to talk freely regardless of if they have anything to say. In other words, men aim to communicate information while women aim to build rapport and common ground.
To help women better understand and communicate with men, Summers and Waterman break their ebook into three parts:
- Basics of good communication – In part 1, Conversation Chemistry tackles the foundations of being a good communicator. Topics such as how to build rapport, establish common ground, and demonstrate that you understand your conversation partner are discussed as well as 5 key conversation turnoffs and communication mistakes. In addition, part 1 stresses the importance of non-verbal communication and how you are likely to project what you are feeling to others in ways you wouldn’t imagine.
- Dating communication – Part 2 takes the foundations for good communication and applies them to dating. This section discusses how to start a conversation with someone new, how to spark attraction, and how to escalate that interaction to the next level. It also provides helpful tips on overcoming anxiety and making a great first impression.
- Relationship communication – Finally, part 3 tackles communication in relationships, such as how to talk about your needs and feelings, how to communicate affection, and even how to argue effectively.
The best thing about this ebook is how thorough it is. Virtually any situation you can imagine that involves interacting with the opposite sex in a casual, dating or relationship capacity is covered in great detail with examples.
And because this ebook covers all aspects of communication with the opposite sex, any woman looking to improve her communication skills with men will benefit – whether she’s interested in dating, communicating better with her partner, or just improving her interactions with the men in her life.
In addition to the ebook, you’ll also receive the following bonuses:
- NLP for Beginners – This ebook explains what Neurolinguistic Programming is and how it can help you replace limiting beliefs with empowering ones.
- How To Double Commitment – If you’ve ever wanted to have the “where is this relationship headed” talk with your guy, this ebook is a must read for setting the stage for a long-term, committed relationship.
- Femininity Unleashed – This is a transcript of a talk between Mirabelle Summers and Amy Waterman on the subject how men are attracted to women who flaunt their femininity and what you can do to embrace your feminine side.
- How To Read A Man’s Body Language – In this 45 minute discussion, Emily and Scot McKay provide an inside perspective on how to read a man’s body language.
Verdict: I highly recommend this book to any woman who wants to learn to communicate better with men. Even if you skim the book or only read part 1, you’ll still walk away with a heightened sense of awareness about how you communicate, what you communicate, and how others perceive you.
Click here to buy Conversation Chemistry…
