One of the most prominent beliefs women have about dating is that they should be “nice girls” – the kind of women who are willing to make a commitment to make their relationship the biggest priority in their lives. They are happy to put their man first and devote considerable time and attention to growing their relationship. They try to be agreeable and take their man’s wants and needs to heart whenever they make any decision so the relationship is as smooth and conflict-free as possible.

Unfortunately, men have a different idea of what a “nice girl” is. When men think of “nice girls,” they think of someone who has no life of her own and who can’t make decisions for herself. She’s a girl who doesn’t know what she wants, doesn’t have much self confidence, and who welcomes a relationship with any guy who wants her. She isn’t much of a challenge because she’s willing to drop everything if he needs her and she will bend over backwards at his beck and call. Read More→