After a breakup, you’re tempted to do all sorts of things you wouldn’t otherwise do just to get your ex back, such as crying, begging and pleading with him, threatening him, or promising to change. None of these do much good to make your ex stay.

Then, you might try to make your ex jealous by flirting with other people, pretending you don’t care at all about him or telling his friends and family how much you love your ex and want him back. Maybe you’ll try to be friends with your ex or even sleep with him, so he remembers how good he once had it.

Rather than helping, these behaviors pretty much destroy any chance you have of getting back with your ex. Your old relationship was broken, so hoping that things will somehow “work” this time around or that you can “fix” things won’t lead to both of you living happily ever after together.

The only way you can work things out is to create a new relationship with your ex – and it’s easier than you think with Waterman and Summers’ six step process. Here’s what you’ll learn in their six-step formula:

1. Get Through the Immediate Grief – When a breakup happens, it seems your whole world unravels. You have to remind yourself that your ex is no longer with you and when you do, you break into tears and feel like the world has ended all over again. It’s at this stage where you have to take some time to pull yourself back together. Don’t contact your ex. Instead, focus on you and getting over your initial grief.
2. Think – Rather than rushing to reconcile with your ex, take some time to understand why you broke up. As painful as it may be to dwell on past mistakes, you have to accept your breakup happened for a reason. Until you know that reason and how both of you could learn from it and do things differently in the future, you won’t be able to re-create a lasting relationship with your ex.
3. Deal with the Anger – When you start looking at the cause of your breakup, you’ll probably feel anger at your ex for something he’s done, whether that’s not making an effort in your relationship, being distant, not acting affectionately, or being too clingy. If you try to deny your anger, it will creep into any new relationship you try to create with your ex. Nothing drives people apart faster than lingering resentment. Until you can make peace with and forgive yourself and your ex for any past mistakes – including the hurt and betrayal you feel from the breakup – you’re not ready to re-establish contact with your ex.
4. Initiate Contact – Once you’ve thought about the reasons for the breakup and forgiven yourself and your ex, you’re ready to start talking to your ex again. You want to initiate contact with the intent of starting a brand new relationship with your ex based on what you’ve learned during the breakup rather than trying to pick things up where you left off. That means re-attracting your ex like you did when you two first started dating.
5. Talk about the Breakup – Once you’re meeting your ex regularly and things are going well, it’s time to talk about what happened during the breakup. You’ll need to address the pain from your previous relationship if you hope to create a stronger relationship.
6. Putting Love into Practice – Finally, you may have reconciled with your ex, but that doesn’t mean you can sit back and relax. Being lazy in your relationship or taking your partner for granted will quickly lead to another split. Here, Waterman and Summers discuss how you can express your love and appreciation for your partner every day of the year.

In addition to this incredibly informative and easy to follow ebook, 2nd Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex comes with a number of bonuses.

• How To Be Happy – In this extensive 99-page guide, you’ll learn what it takes to be a healthy, happy person.
• How To Heal The Pain Of A Breakup – This guide encourages you to take a healthy 3-step approach to dealing with your breakup pain, rather than falling into the habit of sleeping 20 hours a day, isolating yourself from others, chain smoking, drowning yourself in alcohol or pigging out on junk food.
• Surviving a Breakup Audio Series – This 11-part audio series provides all sorts of inspiration and comfort for those in the aftermath of a breakup.

Verdict: Second chances can work, but only if you are completely honest about why your relationship failed the first time. Both of you must commit to resolve the problems you previously had. If you’re sure you want to get back with your ex, 2nd Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex offers one of the most straightforward, concise strategies I’ve seen to get your ex back.

Everyone has felt a bit nervous going into a first date, giving a public speech, interviewing for a job or walking into a party where you don’t know anyone. Yet, imagine you felt 100% confident in your abilities to handle any of these situations with grace – knowing you’ll be fine and make a great impression.

Self-confidence is the belief that you are perfect and good enough just as you are. It doesn’t stem from having certain characteristics like the body of a swimsuit model, unlimited wealth, or the perfect career. It’s not about what other people say, how you react to situations, or where you are in life. Rather, it’s a mindset you have about yourself and about the value you have to offer the world.

If you’ve read any dating or self-improvement books, you’ve probably heard that the key to success is being confident and “believing in yourself.” The problem is that you can’t make yourself believe in something you don’t – and that’s where Shaw’s book shines. This isn’t a book about positive thinking or “faking it until you make it.” Instead, he tackles the heart of the matter – how limiting beliefs about yourself are holding you back and what to do to overcome those beliefs in any situation you may find yourself.

This 185-page ebook is for anyone who would like to feel more comfortable with themselves personally, professionally, and in various social situations. It’s broken into 5 main sections:

• Personal Confidence – In this section, Shaw discusses how to recognize negative thinking patterns, how to overcome self-doubt when making decisions, how to be patient and kind with yourself rather than getting angry, and how to stop depending on other people’s approval to define your self-worth.
• Social Confidence – This section deals with how you interact in a group setting such as making conversation, dealing with embarrassing situations, and overcoming shyness.
• Professional Confidence – Here, Shaw discusses how to distance your self-worth from your results in business, which can be a challenging feat.
• Sexual Confidence – Your sexual confidence includes how you feel about your body, whether you feel attractive to the opposite sex, and how you imagine that others perceive you.
• Concrete Confidence-Building Techniques – Finally, Shaw tackles the practical ways to build your self confidence and become more confident today.

In addition, Shaw provides a number of bonuses

• How To Achieve Mastery of Your Inner Game – Your inner game is everything you believe about yourself such as “Do I believe I’m attractive to the opposite sex? Am I ready to have a relationship? Can I be a great partner in a relationship? Do I deserve the type of partner I want to attract?” In this audio session and transcript, you’ll learn to become more self-confident in your dating life.
• Master Your Confidence Through Overcoming Shyness – This audio session and transcript includes 5 tips for overcoming shyness and building self-confidence. There’s also a self-hypnosis audio session included to help you break negative thinking patterns.
• Hot Relationships: A Saucy Guide to Teasing Your Man – This guide lives up to its name – and teaches you how to be that sexy babe your guy won’t be able to keep his hands off.

Verdict: If you’ve ever wanted to change your perception of yourself from being shy, nervous, or scared to an unstoppable force who adds considerable value to the lives of those around her, then Supreme Self-Confidence is for you. Gain the confidence you need to succeed at life, business and dating with this action-oriented guide.

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Mirabelle Summers and Amy Waterman set out to make communication with the opposite sex a breeze in their massive 298-page guide to male-female communication, Conversation Chemistry.

Fundamentally, men and women have different styles for communication. Men use words to do something, so their communication is often concise, to the point, and goal oriented. Women, on the other hand, use words to feel connected, so they love to talk freely regardless of if they have anything to say. In other words, men aim to communicate information while women aim to build rapport and common ground.

To help women better understand and communicate with men, Summers and Waterman break their ebook into three parts:

1. Basics of good communication – In part 1, Conversation Chemistry tackles the foundations of being a good communicator. Topics such as how to build rapport, establish common ground, and demonstrate that you understand your conversation partner are discussed as well as 5 key conversation turnoffs and communication mistakes. In addition, part 1 stresses the importance of non-verbal communication and how you are likely to project what you are feeling to others in ways you wouldn’t imagine.
2. Dating communication – Part 2 takes the foundations for good communication and applies them to dating. This section discusses how to start a conversation with someone new, how to spark attraction, and how to escalate that interaction to the next level. It also provides helpful tips on overcoming anxiety and making a great first impression.
3. Relationship communication – Finally, part 3 tackles communication in relationships, such as how to talk about your needs and feelings, how to communicate affection, and even how to argue effectively.

The best thing about this ebook is how thorough it is. Virtually any situation you can imagine that involves interacting with the opposite sex in a casual, dating or relationship capacity is covered in great detail with examples.

And because this ebook covers all aspects of communication with the opposite sex, any woman looking to improve her communication skills with men will benefit – whether she’s interested in dating, communicating better with her partner, or just improving her interactions with the men in her life.

In addition to the ebook, you’ll also receive the following bonuses:

• NLP for Beginners – This ebook explains what Neurolinguistic Programming is and how it can help you replace limiting beliefs with empowering ones.
• How To Double Commitment – If you’ve ever wanted to have the “where is this relationship headed” talk with your guy, this ebook is a must read for setting the stage for a long-term, committed relationship.
• Femininity Unleashed – This is a transcript of a talk between Mirabelle Summers and Amy Waterman on the subject how men are attracted to women who flaunt their femininity and what you can do to embrace your feminine side.
• How To Read A Man’s Body Language – In this 45 minute discussion, Emily and Scot McKay provide an inside perspective on how to read a man’s body language.

Verdict: I highly recommend this book to any woman who wants to learn to communicate better with men. Even if you skim the book or only read part 1, you’ll still walk away with a heightened sense of awareness about how you communicate, what you communicate, and how others perceive you.

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Amy Waterman wrote The Seduction Genie to help single women navigate the dating road and become the woman guys want to be with. Despite what the name implies, this isn’t a how-to guide on keeping your man happy in bed, nor is it a list of sexual positions or tips to spice up your life between the sheets.

Instead, Waterman provides a just-the-essentials crash course in dating from how to be your best self to how to attract men to how to keep them interested.

Because you can’t attract the perfect man unless you know what you are looking for, Waterman starts by asking you to narrow down what exactly he looks like in your mind. Once you’ve got that down, it’s time to become the best you can be to attract that perfect guy. That means learning ways to make your appearance more attractive, how to exude confidence and femininity, and how to flirt and be approachable. No, you don’t have to look like a swimsuit model or dress like a floozy to attract men, but you can accentuate your assets, cover up your flaws, and walk with confidence to draw men to you with your charm and femininity.

Being ready for your perfect man is just step one. Step two is, of course, the actual dating. Here, Waterman dishes out practical advice on first date do’s and don’ts, how to prepare yourself for first-time sex, and how to keep the fires burning once you two are an item. Don’t worry if you’re shy – Waterman has advice for that too.

The ebook also debunks myths about relationships like that romance “just happens,” that somewhere there is a “perfect” man with no flaws,” and that your boyfriend should “complete” you and make you happy.

Who is this ebook for? This ebook is geared toward women who don’t have much experience at modern dating, especially those getting out of long-term relationships and back in the dating scene.

What bonuses are available? The Seduction Genie comes with a number of bonuses including:

• How To Attract Men Online Audio Course – Dating expert Simon Robbins gives women the scoop on how to attract men and keep them interested in this five-part audio course.
• Your Guide to Stronger Relationships – This guide tackles five key components of a strong relationship including maintenance, intimacy, affirmation, communication and conflict resolution.
• Guide to Online Dating – If you’ve been thinking of trying online dating, this guide will help you decide if it’s right for you, how to get started, what to put in your online profile, how to screen guys, and how to take the relationship offline.
• Hot Relationships: A Saucy Guide to Teasing Your Man – This guide lives up to its name – and teaches you how to be that sexy babe your guy won’t be able to keep his hands off.
• A Guide to Female Orgasms – Who doesn’t like orgasms or want more of them? This guide, written for women, explains what an orgasm is, the different types of orgasm, and how to have stronger orgasms.

Verdict: The Seduction Genie is great as a standalone crash course in dating or as a complement to Mimi Tanner’s Secrets of Flirting With Men ecourse. It’s highly recommended for anyone who finds themselves back in the dating scene after a lengthy leave or for those inexperienced daters who want to improve their skills with men.

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Flirting is a basic human instinct found in all cultures around the world. It’s also a fun way to show someone that you’re interested in them and would like to get to know them better.

We pick up flirting tips from a young age, yet we are often unaware of the things we do to try to attract a mate. Much of our behavior is unconscious, and it’s easy to be too subtle for men to pick up on your signals or even for you to send the wrong signals!

That’s where Mimi Tanner’s “Secrets of Flirting With Men” can help. In this eight-week course, you’ll learn exactly what it takes to attract a man and keep his interest.

Who is this course for? Primarily, this course is for single women looking to attract more men into their lives. However, women in relationships can also benefit by adding excitement to their current relationship with Mimi’s flirting tips.

How is the class delivered? Most of the classes are in written form, with a couple of audio classes. All classes are delivered online through a private website.

What will you learn? Here’s a breakdown of each of the classes:

• Class 1: Introduction to Flirting – Learn what flirting is, why we do it and what it takes to be a great flirt.
• Class 2: How You Look and Move – Learn how your appearance and posture affect how men perceive you.
• Class 3: Body Language – Learn how your body language signals your feelings and whether you’d be open and welcome to men approaching you.
• Class 4: Making Flirting Easy – Learn how to start a habit of flirting and how to think about flirting so it becomes natural.
• Class 5: The Flirting Prop – How to use props to aid you in flirting, especially if you’re shy and want men to approach you.
• Class 6: A Man’s Advice on “How To Flirt” (audio class) – Dating expert Simon Robbins gives women the scoop on how to attract men and keep them interested.
• Class 7: Master Flirting Tips – Mimi answers questions on how to flirt but still win his respect and how to test a man’s interest level.
• Class 8: The True Femme Fatale (audio class) – Learn how to intensify your flirting and how to move from casual flirting to a full-blown romance.

Finally, Mimi provides two bonuses:

• How to Have a Hypnotic Effect On Your Man focuses on how women can better understand what men want in a relationship and how you can keep him interested.
• How to Meet More Men Than You’ve Ever Thought Possible focuses on where and how to find good men to date. If you’ve ever thought to yourself, “There aren’t any good men around,” this guide will open your eyes to all the men you’ve been missing out on.

Verdict: If you feel shy or nervous around men – or you just want a refresher course on how to be more open, friendly and flirtatious with men – then this is a must-own course. By reading through Mimi’s tips, you’ll become more aware of what signals you send to men through your appearance, actions and body language. You’ll also learn how to appear more confident, friendly and fun-loving so that men will want to approach you.

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